An important part of Ones process is to transition from the victim status into Mastery, which is the Victorious state of being in control, and not accepting nor allowing any part of the victimhood theme to be a part of Ones Self, Self navigation, and Self operating.
Yes, One may have been a victim of a very traumatic experience, and the effects of this experience and victimhood stayed with Them throughout Their Life, always there, always gnawing, and controlling the feelings and actions of One. The perspective and the placement of the experience is the key to diminish its effects and to finally escape it, be free of it, and to rise into a Higher Place of Empowerment. It can be very difficult to change the past, however, You can change the now, and the future, by the choices made and by changing perspective.
With a state of victimhood, there is always Someone or something to blame. The deep hurt and emotions are very real, they are felt and affect the Conscious thinking, as well as the Heart’s knowing, an imprint has been made, that does not feel good, and needs to be resolved by the Individual, else it controls into One consistently having negative, and even similar experiences. In this unprecedented time on Earth, the Co-Creator ability is increasing, and with this, the Individual is impacting Their Reality through Their Conscious thinking and Heart felt feelings more than anytime in the past. Because of this ability strengthening, in preparation for the New World, negative thoughts and feelings become more magnetic to Ones Reality and Experience, and can Create multiples of negative experience, as well as constant looping in the victimhood scenario. This occurs because there is a Higher test involved, unbeknownst at first to the Individual, until They see that Their old ways keep producing the same negative experience, and another Way must be chosen. The brick wall of victimhood crumbles when One is able to navigate from a Higher perspective and viewpoint.
Blame is a negative projection, it is a negative energy signal that is sent outward by an Individual which can carry more fear based emotions and Energetics, which negatively polarize any return to the Individual, however also, Creating negative artifacts that are attracted to the negative energy, likes attract. As One becomes more Divine and transitions into Their Divinity, They see and know that the old Human actions and reactions from the fear state and energetics, no longer serve, and produces adverse and hindering effects upon Themselves if it continues. It is best to let go and let God to the extent of justice being Divinely served, importantly without aggression or vengeance expressed by the victim. It is best also to be Righteous and expose the Truth surrounding the abuse, rather than being controlled into silence by it. Truth is a Divine Power that sets One Free of the controlling trauma, and also Transparency exposes it so that it does not occur with, or affect Others if there is a perpetrator involved that has traumatized Others in this way as well.
There are mainly two different types of victimhood, one where the actual darkness has violated One, and the other where a Soul may have inflicted harm upon Another, Creating a victimhood scenario. Nevertheless, in both cases, the remedy remains the same. Rise above it, muster Your Courage, be Transparent with what occurred, Publicly in cases where it involves a perpetrator beyond an unhealed Soul and it is blatant that the attack or suffering was intentional, expose the perpetrator to assist Others from succumbing to the same types of violations. Believe and Trust in Divinity and Yourself, and Know that by doing so, the outcomes are Just and Right, God is Real.
On a deeper Divine Level, You could not have changed nor avoided the traumatic experience if You are an important Divine One here on Earth with a Divine Role to expose serious wrong doing and violations to Others, it was scripted at a Soul Level before You incarnated. By You being the victim, You were able to have the experience and knowledge of how the darkness worked, and come out of it equipped with the knowledge of how to recognize the signs, educate Others, and also to assist with eradicating the darkness and dark wicked behaviour forever on this Earth. In this Great Time of Revelation, no stone goes unturned and all darkness is revealed through the exposing process.
Love, Light, and Gratitude to All
Rick Jewers